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posted by Enigma @ 8/31/2006 03:22:00 PM 2 Comments

love vs lust

i feel there is nothing called love between a girl and a guy it all varying degrees of lust.
the physical attraction that makes individual believe that they are in "love".
Indians often mistake lust for love.
love is what u feel for your parents or siblings or ur pet.
What u feel for ur spouse or gf/bf is lust/physical attraction. Over a period of time they try to give a name to the relationship as "love”. That’s nothing more than getting used to the person. We are always reluctant to changes hence we stick to a person and believe that it's "love". But in reality their is no "love".

Americans too might make some mistakes that way, but they date before they get married. So they remove the lust part of it before wedding. That way mind becomes clear and you can see how things go 2 years down the line, 5 years down the line or 10 years down. But again they too have high divorce rates. I guess this happens due to high expectations and disappointments.
Many times any relationship fails because of expectation disappointment, than incompatibility. I guess there is nothing like compatible or in-compatible. We can reword them as lack of understanding that would lead to a break up.
So I guess people who say are in love are were in love actually were not it was just the lust and later on meeting of expectation.
That way I can say I was never in love :) and never will be :P as I would not give in for physical attraction no matter how hard it is for me to resist and I would try not to have expectations!!. That way I try to choose with logic/analysis. Sigh romance is not for practical ppl like me I guess

posted by Enigma @ 8/23/2006 03:52:00 PM 27 Comments

its hillarious!!

beg

posted by Enigma @ 8/16/2006 04:46:00 PM 1 Comments

good read

good leader

posted by Enigma @ 8/15/2006 04:35:00 PM 0 Comments

was trying to listen to my fav songs this week end
thought would list them down and curious who else shares my taste in kannda music

Partha - ಈ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಒಂತರ ಕಚಗುಳಿ
Huccha- ಉಸಿರೇ ಉಸಿರೇ
Amrutha Varshini - All songs
Abhi - ಈ ನಿನ್ನ ಕಣ್ಣಾಣೇ
Excuse me- all songs
Hombisilu - all songs
Malaya Marutha - Most of them
Sakshatkara - most of them
Besuge - Besuge


Need to recollect some more songs

posted by Enigma @ 8/13/2006 09:49:00 PM 4 Comments